7 Behaviours that Make You the Most Interesting Person in the World

Have you ever wondered what makes some people more interesting than others? Why do people enjoy talking and listening to them more? Being interesting is not a fixed trait that people are born with or without. It is a skill that anyone can develop and improve over time. It's all about being interested. To be interesting, is to be interested. It's a language that even animals understand. 

I remember a close friend of mine that often complained that he does not know why people dont want to hang around him or contribute to his conversation. And I found it out from the people he complained about without seeking it. It was all about him. He was always about where he is coming from, where he is going, what he has done, what he is about to do, how he feels. How he has felt and what he thinks. He literally has no interest in the world around him but only with the world about him. 

1. Cultivate Curiosity

I once read a story about a woman who believed she wasn't an interesting person. She had the chance to go on a date with a TV influencer she admired for his intriguing personality. During their conversation, the TV personality complimented her, saying she was such an interesting person. Initially, she wondered how much alcohol he had consumed before their meeting and assumed the compliment wasn't sincere. Curiously, she asked him why he thought that. He responded, It's the way you ask questions. Not just what you ask, but how you ask."

Curiosity is the foundation of an interesting personality. A curious mind always seeks to learn and discover new things. By asking questions, reading widely, and exploring different fields of knowledge, one can become more engaging. Whether learning a new language, picking up a new hobby, or understanding different cultures, a thirst for knowledge broadens horizons and enriches conversations. Curiosity opens doors to endless discussions and adventures, making one a magnet for engaging interactions.

I believe everyone is a conduit through which God channels His wisdom into the world. Whenever I meet people, I am always eager to discover the wisdom God has placed within them.

2. Be a Good Listener

Listening is an underrated yet powerful skill. When you listen actively, you show people that you value their thoughts and opinions. This not only makes them feel appreciated but also allows you to learn from their experiences and perspectives. By being a good listener, you create deeper connections and become someone people enjoy talking to.

Ask open-ended questions and show genuine interest in people's stories. This encourages them to share more and feel understood. Listening isn't just about hearing words; it's about comprehending the underlying emotions and messages. By paying attention, you can offer more thoughtful responses and provide better support.

Active listening fosters empathy and respect. When you listen well, you acknowledge the other person's worth and validate their feelings. This builds trust and rapport, making interactions more meaningful. Moreover, it opens doors to new insights and ideas that you might not have considered otherwise.

In a world, where everyone is eager to speak their minds out, being a good listener sets you apart. It shows humility and patience, qualities that are highly valued in any relationship. Remember, conversations are not just exchanges of words but opportunities for connection and growth.

By honing your listening skills, you enhance your relationships, learn more about the world around you, and become a more compassionate and engaging individual. So, take the time to listen. It’s a small effort with profound rewards.

3. Develop a Sense of Humor or entertainments

A good sense of humor can lighten any situation and make interactions more enjoyable. Humor breaks down barriers and creates a relaxed atmosphere. Share funny stories, witty observations, or light-hearted jokes. Remember, humor is not about being the class clown but about finding joy and laughter in everyday moments. A well-timed laugh can turn an ordinary conversation into a memorable one.

As someone once said, the secret is not in doing extraordinary things, but in doing ordinary things in extraordinary ways. Always find a way to be stylish, playful, or slightly dramatic in your actions. Just a touch of flair, without being annoying, sets you apart from others. My friend Leticia never gives me anything without adding a bit of drama. Sometimes, she'll ask with both hands folded tightly, "Guess which hand has it?" Other times, she'll say, Close your eyes, I have a surprise, or guess who I saw today? Before I give her a response, I am already smiling or engaging my brain thinking. . 

I recall one of my clients, Scouse, who always stylishly swings his hand off the paper whenever he gives me a signature, making both of us smile. These small, extraordinary acts of humor help others find quick relief from their worries.

4. Be Respectful

If you want to know how to make people shun you, dislike you, and speak negatively about you, just be disrespectful. Respect is fundamental in building meaningful relationships. Treat everyone with kindness and consideration, as you would like to be treated, regardless of their status or background. Respect others’ opinions, even if they differ from your own. Avoid interrupting, judging, or belittling others.

Respect is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship. When people feel respected, they are more likely to open up and engage with you, leading to richer and more interesting interactions. By showing respect, you create an environment of trust and mutual understanding. This not only enhances your relationships but also fosters a positive and supportive community around you.

Remember, respect isn’t just about grand gestures. It’s about the small, everyday actions that show you value others. Listen actively when someone is speaking. Acknowledge their feelings and perspectives. Be considerate of their time and space. These simple acts of respect can make a significant difference in how others perceive and interact with you.

Ultimately, respect is about recognising the inherent worth of every individual. It’s about treating people with dignity and kindness, regardless of who they are or where they come from. By doing so, you not only build stronger relationships but also contribute to a more respectful and compassionate world.

5. Be Authentic and Unique

Authenticity is magnetic. When you are true to yourself, people are naturally drawn to you. Share your genuine thoughts, feelings, and experiences without trying to fit into a mold or pretending to be someone you’re not. Authenticity builds trust and fosters deeper connections. People appreciate and respect those who are real and unpretentious, making you a more relatable and interesting individual.

Being authentic means embracing your true self, including your strengths and weaknesses. It’s about being honest with yourself and others, which creates an atmosphere of trust and openness. When people see that you are genuine, they feel more comfortable being themselves around you.

Authenticity also enhances your confidence. When you stop trying to conform to others’ expectations, you free yourself from the burden of pretence. This self-assuredness makes your interactions more meaningful and impactful.

Moreover, authenticity attracts like-minded individuals who value you for who you truly are. It filters out superficial connections and fosters deeper, more meaningful relationships. People are drawn to your sincerity and are more likely to open up and share their true selves with you.

Being authentic sets you apart. It reminds others of the beauty of imperfection and the strength found in vulnerability.

By being true to yourself, you inspire others to do the same. Even people that seem to have more than you do envy your ways.  Your authenticity becomes a beacon and inspiration, encouraging genuine connections and fostering a community built on trust and mutual respect. Embrace your authentic self, and watch as it transforms your relationships and enriches your life.

6. Embrace Diversity

While traveling to Africa sometime ago. Remembering my encounter  with a young man Husene. His vibrant knowledge and unique perspective opened my eyes to the beauty of his religion Islam. It was a whole new knowledge from what I have known and seen about Islam. Even though I may not convert to Islam, This experience reminded me of the profound impact of embracing diversity.

Embracing diversity means being open to different perspectives, and experiences. Travel, read, learn about various cultures, and engage with people from different backgrounds and culture and beliefs. This openness enriches your understanding of the world, making you more adaptable and empathetic. By embracing diversity, you become a well-rounded individual who can connect with people from all walks of life, making your interactions richer, more attractive, and more fulfilling.

When you expose yourself to diverse cultures and viewpoints, you broaden your horizons and challenge your assumptions. This leads to personal growth and a deeper appreciation for the complexities of the human experience. It also fosters creativity and innovation, as diverse perspectives often lead to unique solutions and ideas.

Moreover, embracing diversity enhances your emotional intelligence. Understanding and appreciating differences help you navigate social dynamics with greater sensitivity and insight. This skill is invaluable in both personal and professional settings, as it enables you to build stronger, more respectful relationships.

In a globalised world, the ability to connect with people from various backgrounds is a significant asset. It allows you to communicate effectively, collaborate harmoniously, and contribute to a more inclusive community. By valuing diversity, you help create an environment where everyone feels seen, heard, and respected.

Ultimately, embracing diversity is about celebrating the richness of human wisdom. It’s about recognising that our differences make us stronger and that by learning from one another, we can achieve greater understanding and unity. 

7. Give Genuine Compliments

There are few investments in life that yield immediate and lasting returns like giving compliments. The rewards are instantaneous and can impact someone for a lifetime. I remember feeling miserable at an event, believing I looked terrible. Then my friend Isabella approached me and said, "Mufy, you glow so amazingly. What's your secret?" Initially, I thought she was just flattering me, but when I checked the mirror, I realised I did look great. Her compliment changed my perception of myself.

Complimenting others goes beyond simply noting their appearance. Pay attention to people's actions, achievements, and qualities. Acknowledge their hard work, creativity, or kindness. I've come to realise that giving compliments is a form of worship. When you recognise and appreciate the goodness in others, you are praising God for His work.

Take the time to compliment others genuinely. It can boost their confidence, brighten their day, and create a ripple effect of positivity. In doing so, you celebrate the beauty and goodness that God has placed in each person.

Conclusion

Becoming the most interesting person in the world is not about being the loudest or most flamboyant in the room. It’s about cultivating curiosity, listening actively, having a good sense of humor, being respectful, giving sincere compliments, staying authentic, embracing diversity. These behaviours not only enhance your interactions but also enrich your own life, making you a more captivating and inspiring individual. Start incorporating these habits today, and watch as you become the person everyone wants to talk to and learn from.